Tired

Posted by Rick in Kyrie, Family (Monday September 26, 2005 at 9:12 am)

Forrest and Rebekah left Spokane on Friday afternoon about 4, and ended up in Monroe on Sunday morning at about 4 AM…34 hours of driving…without stopping at a hotel (they’re insane). We went to St. Thomas in the morning, and the power was out. And this is Louisiana, so it was hot, even though it was considerably cooler than it has been all summer (because of Hurricane Rita).

On Saturday, Rachel had some pretty hard (and long…over two minutes long, 3-4 minutes apart from start to start), but they ended up dying down after several hours. For those of you that don’t know, those contractions are not great…they’re too long and run the risk of putting the baby in fetal distress. She’s been continuing with consistent contractions (though not as hard), and we’re hoping the baby will come sometime in the next year. Of course, her not sleeping well means I don’t get to sleep well, and I don’t have the luxury of sleeping in, since I teach 8 o’clocks every day. So I’m wiped out and falling behind in grading.

16 Responses to “Tired”

  1. jon Says:

    Poor Rachel. I’ve been experiencing pretty similar contractions. It really doesn’t seem fair to go through the discomfort of them and then not have a baby pop out. :)
    If the Tucker boys need to come over and play anytime, just give me a call.

    hollie

  2. Holly Says:

    haha! It’s so fun to hear them called “the Tucker boys” *silly grin*

  3. brad b Says:

    is she living up to her name and making you cry for mercy?

  4. Sarah Mosley Says:

    Are you and/or your midwife against induction?

  5. Rachel Says:

    Depends on how you define “induction.”

    We would all be against induction with pitocin as it raises the risk of cesarians and episiotomies as well as the numerous harmful effects it often has on children.

    I’m not too thrilled with the idea of breaking the water. Rachel is more open to that, but again, if you’re body isn’t ready, it will increase the risk of cesarians. Our midwife isn’t too thrilled with the idea.

    Rachel has tried herbs like cohosh, but they’ve made her a bit sick.

    The midwife stripped her membranes last week; nothing happened.

    She’s trying castor oil tonight. Hopefully that will produce some results. It usually does when a woman is overdue.

    Rachel’s dates are a bit fluid because of the length of her cycles. She could have conceived late enough to make her due date Sept 21st. That would put her at six days late, rather than twelve.

    I wouldn’t have a problem going as long as three weeks late (or even more depending on the situation), but Rachel is in pain because the baby just isn’t fitting. She’s starting to bruise her ribs.

  6. Bekah Says:

    This may be an old wives’ tale, but I’ve heard that eggplant parmesan helps induce labor. At least it would taste better than the castor oil! Hope you get some relief soon!

  7. Rick Says:

    There’s a restaurant somewhere in the South that guarantees that if you eat their eggplant parmesan, you will go into labor within 72 hours or your money back. We almost tried it last week, but then decided against it. I’m rethinking that one.

    Rachel didn’t mind the castor oil, and it started contractions, but they too faded out.

  8. Eucharis Says:

    Are there legal issues you guys have to worry about with regards to going “too far” past the due date? IE, if you’re more than a certain amount of days “late”, do you have to deliver in hospital? (You’re planning a homebirth, right?)

  9. Rick Says:

    We need a doctor’s approval to go past tomorrow.

  10. Sarah Mosley Says:

    I don’t remember if they gave me pitocin or oxytocin or whatever. They didn’t exactly ask permission. Sure sped things up, though.

  11. Rick Says:

    There’s no doubt it works if you’re ready.

  12. jon Says:

    I think the inducing works well. If your body is not “ready” after 2 weeks then, chances are, you were going to need a c-section anyway. Some people just can’t go into labor naturally for whatever reasons.
    Rachel, I can’t believe you stomached the castor oil. We bought some once but I could never bring myself to try it. With our first pregnancy, Noel Leithart had recommended to Jon that we try the castor oil and also sex to speed things up. I think I’d choose the sex anyday.

    hollie

  13. Rick Says:

    Rachel drank the castor oil and said, “Hmm. That’s not so bad.”

    Uh, not that anyone wants to know this, but sex produces great contractions, but still, no baby.

    And, a lot of women go three weeks before they go into labor. It’s really not that uncommon in the natural labor community.

  14. RachelRuth Says:

    what’s ya’lls email address? I would like to email Rachel with a somewhat personal induction idea that I would prefer to not post publically. You may or may not be open to ideas, but since you have until tomorrow before you have to get a dr’s approval to continue, I thought you may be interested in hearing it.

  15. Rachel Says:

    My mom went 3 weeks over with her fifth, and 15 days over with her first. It’s in the genes. We had an ultrasound and the baby, fluid and placenta are just great, so I’m no longer worried about going this far past due. Although I know we live in an imperfect world, the percentage of women who can’t go into labor on their own is very small.

  16. Mommy Says:

    I hope this post works-

    Rachel’s grandma (my mother) went a month over with my little sister.(Rachel’s aunt Pari)

    My other sister (Rachel’s aunt DD) went over a month with her first baby (Rachel’s cousin Brooks.)

    Hopefully Kyrie will soon be tired of being so cramped and come out into this world!

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