Bayle’s Landing

Rachel and I ventured over to Gabbeaux’s Bayle’s Landing tonight for supper. I was quite impressed. It’s a bit of a hole in the wall, but it’s right on the river, and we were able to eat outside. I opted for a barbecue poboy with jambalaya. Rachel had a shrimp poboy with a side of red beans and rice. Kyrie barely touched her spaghetti and meatballs. The BBQ poboy was pretty awesome, and Rachel loves her red beans and rice. We finished with a dessert of beignets which were almost as good as Cafe Du Monde (actually, they were smaller, which I liked better) and way better than Beignet Cafe (or whatever it’s called now). It was a very enjoyable experience, except for the fact that Kyrie kept pulling off her shirt and getting upset because we wouldn’t let her go in “the pool” (the nasty Oauchita River).

Kyrie pictures from our trip

At a rest stop in Kansas:

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Playing in the garden (in Spokane!):

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Swinging:

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Having fun in the sprinkler:

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Going strawberry picking:

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(Can you tell she got really dirty?)

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I hate our bank

Ever since we have lived in Monroe, we have had problems with one of our banks (Capital One, formerly Hibernia). They drive me freaking insane.

I checked our balance since I’ll be going on a trip, and I noticed our account said we had $80 less than I had in my ledger. Normally it’s the other way around as we wait for things to clear. I looked through the recent charges when all of a sudden, at the very bottom, I noticed FIVE overdraft charges for $32 each. I saw that I had deposited $3,000 from our other bank account the day after the overdrafts, so I had to ask myself if I was trying to cover up a mistake. Reassured that I really was just transferring money, I looked further.

Then I saw another deposit for $1,050. It made no sense because I hadn’t had any deposits for that amount. When I went to the second page, I saw it. Right before the five overdrafts, they had deducted our rent TWICE. Then they tried to cover it up by putting the $1,050 back (two months rent; don’t you love how cheap it is here?), but they didn’t credit back the five overdraft charges. UGH! What a bunch of punks. PUNKS. Needless to say, I’m not very happy since I only have one day off to sort this out before my trip, and the bank is just plain stupid. Rachel made up a dialogue to my future conversation with them:

Bank: Well, you did go over the balance.
Rick: Well, that’s YOUR fault.
Bank: Well, regardless…you were over the balance.

Not long now!

I’m getting anxious and excited about our upcoming trip to Spokane. We’re crazy and we’ve decided to drive up—yes, with a toddler. Kyrie is an excellent traveler, so I don’t anticipate too many problems, but I’m sure this road trip will be tiring for us all. It’ll be so nice to be up in Spokane and have the use of our own car, though! Due to the expansion of our families over the past couple years, the Tuckers & Capezzas can no longer share a van. Anyway, we’ll be there in late June! I can’t wait to see Kyrie with her cousins and uncles and aunts and grandparents. She’s grown so much since they last saw her. Eeeee! :D

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My wife, Kyrie.

Lately, Kyrie has shifted from my daughter to my wife. Whenever I used to leave for work, she would cry. She’s gotten over that. Now she waits at the door, gives me a kiss, says goodbye, and shuts the door. It’s very 1950’s.

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Taxes finished

Woohoo! Now if only Louisiana didn’t make me pay them another $25. Meanies. At least we’re getting a measly federal refund. We should definitely have another kid. I don’t think we’ll make it for this tax year. Oh well :-D

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Random thoughts #62,324 (no one will read it; it’s too long)

Sometimes I am seriously scared about what my students don’t know. ACT’s and GPA’s are on the rise, but intelligence doesn’t really seem to be. Now it’s one thing if we’re trying to analyze a poem and a student throws out a dumb comment. That’s how you learn. Conversing, trying to understand something that stretches your mind. That’s not what I’m talking about.

Let’s take some examples from this semester. When talking about Donne’s Sonnet XIV yesterday, my students were stumped by the language: usurped, chaste, ravish, enthrall. They didn’t know what those words meant. Nobody in the class knew what they meant. Finally, someone piped up and said seriously, “Chaste is when someone’s after you.” I, of course, took a deep breath and taught them some new words, but I was stunned.

Later in that class period, another student asked, “Why does he have to beat around the bush? Why can’t he just say what he means?” My colleague Megan had a great answer: “Because he’s not a rapper.” Sadly, this is what students in a state college are like. Rap and hip-hop are the dominant musical genres on our campus. Another colleague, an Auburn PhD, once made the comment that our upper-level and graduate students are top-notch. They can hang with students at major research universities. But our incoming first-year students are at a much lower level than at other universities. On the one hand, it’s great experience. On another hand, it’s just…sad.

Rachel and Kyrie are reading a Spanish book in the other room, and I heard Rachel just say, “Let’s go learn some Spanish, so you can talk to your grandpa.” That cracks me up even though it’s the truth. Kyrie is looking at Rachel likes she’s crazy and like she’s speaking gibberish.

I really like Amy Lee’s voice, and I liked Evanescence. I was kind of annoyed a few years ago when Lorelei made a crack about them on Gilmore Girls. It still bothers me.

In my persuasive writing course, I let my students pick a few projects for writing assignments. For one of the projects, we’ll be watching Loose Change, a 9/11 conspiracy film. It will be interesting to see if they can understand the depth of argument in that film and come up with arguments against it. Without any leading, I expect two reactions: 1) acceptance 2) dislike without any true rebuttal.

Over the past several years, I’ve had many students who have served in the Middle East. In addition, I’ve had the pleasure of working with many men serving in the reserves. Never have I had a soldier who was against the war in Iraq. All think that Americans don’t understand what they’re doing over there. They’ve learned to control their anger when people lash out at the President and the troops. I find it crazy that they can control their tempers when people are making disparaging comments about what they do with their lives. They have incredible self-control.

During the State of the Union address, I was really disappointed with the way the Democrats acted so mechanically. They stood many times, just to keep themselves from looking bad. They sat on their hands whenever Bush said something they didn’t like, but if he tagged something like “support our troops” onto the end of his sentence, they stood to applaud. It was very fake.

I think I’ll be voting for Barack Obama in the primaries this year (not that it matters here). Even though he’s a social liberal, I at least sense that he’s an honest politician. That probably has something to do with the fact that he hasn’t been a politician very long.

I find it funny. David was playing the hero by marrying Bathsheba. When he acted as a kinsman-redeemer, he was coming off as a great guy. That had to make him feel even worse when Nathan said, “Thou art the man.”

Mime is used as a form of prophecy in the Old Testament. It’s used in Tabernacle worship. Paul uses the mime motif in Corinthians. Gregory of Nazianzus wrote mime plays. High church Christians use liturgical gestures from medieval mime. Try getting your priest to use mime in your worship. :-D

There’s good precedence for Congregational, troupe, and soloist dances in Ps. 149-150, Ex. 15, and 2 Sam. 6:14-16 respectively. Try to get your priest to agree to that too while you’re at it.

There’s a biblical artistic hierarchy of Bezalel’s, Oholiabs, wise ones, and willing hearted ones. We need to bring this to the church.

The Bible is filled with vulgarity, obscenity, profanity, nudity, bad language, fornication, and adultery. But it’s always used for uplift.

Evangelicals tend to think of themselves as Bible-believing Christians while thinking of liturgical Christians as those that don’t care about the Bible. But how much time is devoted to prayer and Scripture reading during worship in each of these church traditions. Go to one church of each kind, and bring a stopwatch. It’s pretty incredible to see how much more devoted to the Word liturgical churches are.

Semi-clean house and happy baby

Kyrie’s third molar arrived yesterday, and since then she has been a happier baby, more eager to play independently, give hugs and kisses, and generally be the sweetheart that we all know her to be. Of course, this will only last until that final molar starts rearing its ugly head (do teeth have heads?).

I managed some laundry & general cleaning of the house today and with the exception of the crackers that Kyrie spilled on the floor, the house is in good order.

I forgot to cancel the pregnancy subscription I had set up on babycenter and I got a “9 weeks pregnant” email today. I felt my heart sink into my stomach a little, promptly deleted it, took the subscription down, and am feeling better. I am still having a hard time with pregnancy envy, but it is fading and I am working so hard to be happy for my wonderful pregnant friends. (I’m not looking for sympathy, just venting a little.)

Just to clarify, we are not sure if Salem is a girl or boy, although my gut always told me boy. We’ll find out someday. :) Thank you to everyone who commented with their prayers and condolences below.

Stuff

Last day of the semester. Papers are more than half graded.

Car is in the shop…again. I think I need a new Mass Air Flow Sensor. Hopefully, that will fix my acceleration problem, and we’ll have no problems on the way to Tulsa. We’re hoping to drive to Tulsa this Sunday. Snow needs to melt off the roads. If we get to Tulsa, everything will be fine.

Our car has been faithful, but we’ve had to make repairs over the last month that have been way too much. We’re hoping to wait it out until spring before we get a new vehicle. Fortunately, we have about $1,000 more left in our bank account than we normally do after paying all our bills…and it’s December, so I’ll be getting $4,000 or so after taxes in the next two weeks after being paid yesterday. The university needs to get a more normal pay schedule.

I met an actor, Ed Nelson, on Wednesday. He lives around here. Why would anyone want to live around here? He’s done way too much stuff.

I’ve forgotten way too many quatoable things this week.

Faculty Christmas party is this weekend. I hope they have some good wine, so I can be a slosh (that one’s for you, Rachel W.). And while, I am mentioning you, I should tell you that you need to cut your post length in half because I always save long posts for later, so I’m about 27 posts behind now.

We have way too much food at our house to eat before we leave. Most of it is meat, so I guess that’s okay.

It’s World AIDS day again.

Support World AIDS Day

Take a moment to pray for those suffering from AIDS, and especially pray for the church in the world, especially in Africa, as it ministers to those who suffer from AIDS.

Learning How to Type all over again

We got a new keyboard and mouse. They’re wireless, which thrills me, but the keyboard is one of those split ones, if you know what I mean…so it’s a little different typing on it. I’ve noticed that I was accustomed to using my right hand to hit the “B” key, when in fact, I should be using my left…so that’s pretty much throwing me off. I just need some practice.

We also bought a new computer desk, which I am sincerely in love with. It’s a corner desk, and it has a stand for the monitor, so I won’t be looking down on the screen and getting neck aches anymore. It’s also got a pull out drawer for the keyboard and two perfect spots for the left & right speakers. I don’t know what to do with the extra room! Also, the desk that we WERE using for the computer is now my sewing desk. I’m not making any promises, but actually having a sewing desk might tempt me to sew more. We’ll see.

We leave, hopefully, in exactly a week. We’ll drive up to Oklahoma and visit friends & family until our Wednesday afternoon flight. Then we’ll be in Spokane! I can’t wait to see everyone. :)

The end.

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